In summary, the status was from a guy who missed his ex-girlfriend and even tagged her in the post. Her ex-girlfriend of course responded, and they just started to argue with each other about who cheated on who. Personally, the who cheated on who thing is just too private to be on facebook, so yes you want the world to know that you slept with another woman during your relationship? k
Hohoho now im being the random person who comments on his personal life. Its so easy to just attack your ex- because he/she was the one who decided to end the relationship, BUT its so hard to see that the problem maybe lies on ourselves. It could be a relationship or a friendship but in both cases, people have a hard time reflecting on their own mistakes and just put the blame on the other person. I understand that it is simpler to just blame someone for all the bad things they did and think of ourselves as innocent and the victim. Duh, everyone wants to be the victim, who wants to be the offender and risk being hated?
What I hate about the whole status thing is that the guy masked his wrong doing by blaming his ex. If his ex did not respond, then everyone would see him as a victim. It's so nice to see a guy cry and miss his ex and then say that he's going to wait even if she is now with someone else and that guy was already in their relationship before it ended (which was counter-argued by the gf but I dont care if she cheated or not). I hate sweet talkers, I hate people who put the whole blame on someone else but they actually did the same thing. If he cheated then why cry when his gf cheat too? hypocrite beaucoup?
On top of all of this, when the gf wanted to talk to him, he just went back to his bubble. Communicating with someone is already a huge step, but when you are the one who started but dont want to listen to the other person, then blame yourself. She tried to talk to you, you dont want to listen, then it's your problem now. It even makes me wonder what his real goal is in writing that status... Yeah I think too much.
To cheating boyfriends: Please understand that the whole relationship ended when you slept with someone else. And no you cant blame the guy who was there for your girlfriend when she was crying. You created that opportunity. ;) Who to blame now? Yes maybe I understand why you cry. Never take someone for granted.
&& people, dont fight on facebook.
Hohoho now im being the random person who comments on his personal life. Its so easy to just attack your ex- because he/she was the one who decided to end the relationship, BUT its so hard to see that the problem maybe lies on ourselves. It could be a relationship or a friendship but in both cases, people have a hard time reflecting on their own mistakes and just put the blame on the other person. I understand that it is simpler to just blame someone for all the bad things they did and think of ourselves as innocent and the victim. Duh, everyone wants to be the victim, who wants to be the offender and risk being hated?
What I hate about the whole status thing is that the guy masked his wrong doing by blaming his ex. If his ex did not respond, then everyone would see him as a victim. It's so nice to see a guy cry and miss his ex and then say that he's going to wait even if she is now with someone else and that guy was already in their relationship before it ended (which was counter-argued by the gf but I dont care if she cheated or not). I hate sweet talkers, I hate people who put the whole blame on someone else but they actually did the same thing. If he cheated then why cry when his gf cheat too? hypocrite beaucoup?
On top of all of this, when the gf wanted to talk to him, he just went back to his bubble. Communicating with someone is already a huge step, but when you are the one who started but dont want to listen to the other person, then blame yourself. She tried to talk to you, you dont want to listen, then it's your problem now. It even makes me wonder what his real goal is in writing that status... Yeah I think too much.
To cheating boyfriends: Please understand that the whole relationship ended when you slept with someone else. And no you cant blame the guy who was there for your girlfriend when she was crying. You created that opportunity. ;) Who to blame now? Yes maybe I understand why you cry. Never take someone for granted.
&& people, dont fight on facebook.
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